Hello friends aaj maine students ke liye article likha hai personality development se related hai agar aap student hai college frsher hai to aur bhi accha hai kyunki aajkal to sabse jyada craze to students mein hi to hai personality develop karne ke liye mai saare student ki baat nahi kar raha hun jo intermediate students hai ya to college fresher hai but mostly student to college ke hi hote hai kyunki college ki starting mein ek new environment milta hai aur naye friends milte hai kuch friend unse kam smart hote hai aur kuch unse jyada smart hote hai.
And jo jyada smart hote hai unhe jyada importance milti hai isiliye wo bhi yahi chahte hai ki unhe bhi utni importance mile jitni unke friend ko milti iske liye wo bahut kuch karte hai jaise mai aapko kuch examples deta hun jaise unka pura getup change ho jata hai matlab wo aur stylish kapde pehnte hai new phone buy karte hai new bike aur bhi bahut kuch isi se related maine ek article maine likha hai kyunki wo apna getup to change kar lete hai but unki personality develop nahi hoti hai.
Personality development mein aap kisi ko kaise treat kare kis type se baatein kare aur bahut kuch isiliye ye article maine likha hai jisse aapki help ho sake.Ab mai aapko kuch points bata raha hun jise aapko acche se padhna hai.
Looking acchi honi chahiye
Ye point to sabse important college students ke liye hai but ye quality sabhi main honi chahiye ek good personality ke liye agar aap first day college ja rahe to ye baat ko humesha dhyan mein rakhe ki first day aapka look kharab na ho uske liye mai aapko kuch tips de raha hun.
➥ Aap jaisi bhi dress pehen rahe ho chahe wo formal ho ya phir school dress ho aapko ye dhyan dena hai ki kahi aapki dress gandi to nahi hai agar gandi hai to nahi pehne kyunki iska bahut bad effect padta hai.
➥ uske baad aapki dress iron honi chahiye dekhne mein bilkul kharab nahi lagni chahiye aur
➥ aur sabse last mein ye dekhna hai ki aapki dress overloose to nahi hai matlab dheeli to nahi hai agar hai to usko sahi karwa kar hi pehne.
Ye bilkul basic fact hai jisse aapko follow karna hai acchi personality ke liye.ek baat mai phir clear karna chahta hun jaisa maine pehle kuch articles mein bhi likha hai ki acchi looking ka matlab accha face hone se nahi hota hai balki aapke kapde pehne aur bhi bahut quality hone se hota hai jo aap mere blog par visit karke dekh sakte hai .
Respect se baat kare
Agar kahi par first ime ja rahe hai to ye baat humesha dhyan mein rakhe ki agar aap kisi se baat kar rahe hai ya koi dusra aap se baat kar raha hai to aap next person se respectfully baat kare agar aap kisi se rudely baat karte hai to waha par aapka saara impression kharab ho jaayega isiliye respectfully baatein karne ke liye pehle se habit banaye aur iski starting aap apne ghar se kar sakte hai.
Agar koi dusra aapse vaise baat nahi kar raha hai jaise aap usse se baat kar rahe hai to waha par aapko usse ladai karne ki koi jaroorat nahi hai kyunki ladai se to baat aur bigad jaayegi na ki sahi ho jaayegi sabse accha tarika hai ki uski baat sun le aur try kare ki aage se baat na kare.
Ye article maine students ke liye likha hai upar ke examples to college students ke liye hai but agar aap school mein hai to mai aap ke liye kuch bata deta hun sabse pehle aap dhyan rakhe ki aap class mein sabhi se respect se bole kisi ko nicha na dikhaye teachers ki respect kare kisi se bahas na kare aur jo galat hai uske liye stand le mai kuch pints brief mein mention kar dea hun.
➥ Aap chahe jaha par bhi ho sabhi se respect se baat kare
➥ Agar koi dusra aap se respect se baat nahi kar raha to bhi aap usse acche se baat ke jo ki aapki personality ko impressive banata hai
Selfish na bane
Ye bad quality bahut kam logo mein hoti hai but jinme hoti hai unki personality par bahut bad effect padta hai jo ki acchi baat nahi hai isse bachne ke liye mai aapko kuch points batata hun uske pehle mai ek baat clear karta hun har koi selfish nahi hota hai but kuch aisi situation aati hai jaha par usko selfish banna padta hai but kuch main to ye permanent quality hoti hai jise koi bhi delete nahi kar sakta hai.
Agar aap chahte hai ki aap selfish na bane to dusro ke baare mein sochna start kare keval apne baare mein hi na soche agar aap dusro ke baare mein sochne se mera matlab ye nahi hai ki aap uske khayalo mein khoye rahe balki isse hai ki agar aapke ke kaaran kisi ko koi banafit mil raha hai aur usme aapka na to koi fayda hai aur na hi koi nuksaan to agar aap usko benefit nahi dete hai matlab aap usko nuksaan dete hai to aap waha par selfish ho jaayenge agar aap usko benefit dete hai to aap waha par selfish nahi honge aur ye aapki personality ke liye plus point hoga.
➥ Agar kisi kaam se kisi dusro ko khusi mil rahi hai to wo kare agar usme aapka koi nuksaan nahi hai.
Knowledge ko share karna seekhe na ki store karna
Ye point aap padh rahe hai wo bahut hi important hai ek success student ke liye wo hai apni knowledge ko kisi dusre se share karna ye good quality bahut se person mein hoti hai but kisi kisi mein ye quality hoti hai jo ki mere according sabse worst quality hai mai aapko ek example deta hun jisse aap acche se samajh jaayenge ek student hai jo dusro ki help ke liye apni knowledge ko sabhi se share kar raha hai aur uske compare mein koi dusra student hai jisko aata to bahut kuch hai but wo apni knowledge nahi share karna chahta hai.kyun?
Jo student apni knowledge ko share kar raha hai wo chahta hai ki uski vajah se dusre sikhe aur unki problem khatam ho jaaye but jo knowledge nahi share kar raha hai wo chahta hai ki kahi koi dusra student usse knowledge lekar aage na chala jaaye aur wo piche reh jaaye aur uski position gir jaaye but kisi ki ye soch bilkul galat hai agar aap knowledge share kaarte hai to wo humesha badhti hai na ki ghattii hai.
➥ Aap jitna knowledge share karenge knowledge mein utna hi grow hoga
Competition karna seekhe na ki jealous karna
School life mein adhiktar hota hai ki koi na koi aisa joroor milta hai jo aapse jealous kare.Agar aap class ke brilliant student hai to bilkul koi na koi milega jo aapse dil se jealous shayad wo aapke saamne kuch na kahe but dusro se jaroor kuch na kuch kahega jo aapki personality ke liye sahi nahi hoga ye to main ek ordinary point bata diya.
But agar aap average student hai aur aap bhi kisi se jealous feeling rakhte hai to aapko jeaous hone ki jaroorat hai uske liye mai aapko kuch tips batata hun agar koi aapse jyada padhne mein accha hai to usse friendship kare agar wo friendship karne wala ho agar nahi hai to koi baat nahi bas aap bhi aache se padhai karna start kar de usse se competition ki feeling rakhe class mein har test ko seriously se cross question kare aur topic discussion mein involved ho kuch time mein aapka level bhi uske level ke equal ho jaayega.
➥ Success ke liye competition karna start kare na ki Jealous karna
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